Bitchy Jones’s Diary is a blog by a British anonymous writer under the pen name Bitchy Jones. The name and title deliberately parody Bridget Jones’s Diary — which, for the author, stands for the opposite of her view of female sexuality. As an active female dominant she writes in detail about her life as a dom, criticizes pieces of mainstream sex culture and BDSM culture, and hits hard at women who dominate men for money.
One recurring theme is the centrality of female desire in female domination. Femdom, in her framing, is what the top wants — not a paid service menu built around male fantasy. That puts the woman’s own need in charge instead of a catering script.
The blog drew praise and hate in public. Abby Lee praised her; the two appeared together on the Channel 4 documentary The Sex Blog Girls. Hostile comments from other bloggers and sites also sit on the homepage. Praise, Abby Lee, Channel 4, and the hate mail are part of the same diary text. For BDSM literature and femdom-media readers, this is the anonymous British domme blog that used a Bridget Jones parody name, centered female desire in female domination, refused pro-domme-for-pay culture, and carried both the Channel 4 spotlight and its own hate mail on the front page.
